大家好：
伍福成校友的母亲在星期一（28-07-08）12.10pm撤手长逝，出殡典礼将在星期五（01-08-08）10.00am举行。目前治丧处是在他的住家，地址如下：
1407D, LORONG BENDAHARA, JALAN LANGGAR, 05300, ALOR SETAR
“三管家”代表所有 KH7883 成员致福成校友深深的哀悼，同时希望他能节哀顺变，尽快走过丧亲之痛。
澤之校友将在今晚(30-07-08)到治丧处慰问福成校友，任何人想参与的可联络他， 我们也希望其他人也可以自行慰问。
谢谢
“三管家”/YK 延建
注：“三管家”已获福成校友的允许把这则启事贴上。
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Monday, July 28, 2008
胡乱絮语
大家好!
老人家他又飞出国了! 没有说明去干什么，应不外是是要把钱花光、为国争光吧。
老人家临行时没有什么特别交代，只著我们这两个瓜不要乱搞，要看好‘家’门。
要我安份地看着那‘家’门，当然不是件易事。不守己的发现老人家忘了写《周末絮语》，就帮他来个简短的《胡乱絮语》。
哈哈！是不是以为我要站起来呼吁些什么？不啦。。。那可大可小的问题就让它顺其自然地大大小小了，不好太刻意追求某一个size。
重聚日后的两个多月里，还没有机会冲出国门，在小小的半岛里倒是南下北上了五六回。上上下下中看看人家的问题，也看看自己的问题。在杂乱交错复杂的方向中为人为己寻求可行的方案时，好多时候在现实因素下得舍完美取平衡。
回头看《禾浪中央》，问题就在完美与平衡之间的选择。个人当然希望能达完美，只惜追求完美的条件及代价实是太高了，非管家们的能力所及。就让它回到它的原点 -- 一个沟通平台；让它依其成员的需求及自愿参与来推动发展。
大家且莫以沉重的心情来给《禾浪中央》太高的期待，应轻松地把它视为一座维系那长远友谊的桥梁。
来来去去的，难以控制，也不能有所勉强。我们所能做到的是确保有人在这里守住，提供管理服务。
在北上南下的路途中，收到了不少43岁朋友们的简讯，为平淡沉闷的路程增添了几许动力。在这里转送共享其中两则：-
“ 人生，就如一张有去无回的单程车票。它没有彩排，每一刻都是现场直播。把握好每一次演出，便是最好的珍惜！希望你一定能，把自己的每一刻都过得精彩！”
“偶尔的繁忙，不代表遗忘；一声真诚问候，愿你心情开朗；曾遗漏的问候，这里全都补偿；所有关心祝福，全凝聚在这封短讯里。。。愿你天天开心，永远快乐。”
谢谢 那个人的无价付出，将那么多43岁的朋友重联。
就胡言乱语到这里。以上乱语纯属个人意见，不代表《禾浪中央》的立场。
~俊之
老人家他又飞出国了! 没有说明去干什么，应不外是是要把钱花光、为国争光吧。
老人家临行时没有什么特别交代，只著我们这两个瓜不要乱搞，要看好‘家’门。
要我安份地看着那‘家’门，当然不是件易事。不守己的发现老人家忘了写《周末絮语》，就帮他来个简短的《胡乱絮语》。
哈哈！是不是以为我要站起来呼吁些什么？不啦。。。那可大可小的问题就让它顺其自然地大大小小了，不好太刻意追求某一个size。
重聚日后的两个多月里，还没有机会冲出国门，在小小的半岛里倒是南下北上了五六回。上上下下中看看人家的问题，也看看自己的问题。在杂乱交错复杂的方向中为人为己寻求可行的方案时，好多时候在现实因素下得舍完美取平衡。
回头看《禾浪中央》，问题就在完美与平衡之间的选择。个人当然希望能达完美，只惜追求完美的条件及代价实是太高了，非管家们的能力所及。就让它回到它的原点 -- 一个沟通平台；让它依其成员的需求及自愿参与来推动发展。
大家且莫以沉重的心情来给《禾浪中央》太高的期待，应轻松地把它视为一座维系那长远友谊的桥梁。
来来去去的，难以控制，也不能有所勉强。我们所能做到的是确保有人在这里守住，提供管理服务。
在北上南下的路途中，收到了不少43岁朋友们的简讯，为平淡沉闷的路程增添了几许动力。在这里转送共享其中两则：-
“ 人生，就如一张有去无回的单程车票。它没有彩排，每一刻都是现场直播。把握好每一次演出，便是最好的珍惜！希望你一定能，把自己的每一刻都过得精彩！”
“偶尔的繁忙，不代表遗忘；一声真诚问候，愿你心情开朗；曾遗漏的问候，这里全都补偿；所有关心祝福，全凝聚在这封短讯里。。。愿你天天开心，永远快乐。”
谢谢 那个人的无价付出，将那么多43岁的朋友重联。
就胡言乱语到这里。以上乱语纯属个人意见，不代表《禾浪中央》的立场。
~俊之
爱是不保留
"过去一年，在禾中央给了我许多快乐，2008年5月3日更是我人生最骄傲的一天。但我必须继续我的人生，我不想再沉迷在这个blog,我要给自己放一个长假，所以往后的一年我不会再回来这个家，这是我个人的决定。希望各位同学，有缘再见。谢谢大家，有了你们我的人生增添了不少快乐！"
在重访台北(1)的留言里,有以上这一段留言.
聪明的人都知道他是谁.虽然,我们不舍得他放这么長的假;但也希望他能用一年的長假好好充实自己,儘快回来和大家分享他的一切.
有一位老朋友(Old KH friend)希望我们把以下的片段Post上来,想必是要祝福他.
~三管家/延建
在重访台北(1)的留言里,有以上这一段留言.
聪明的人都知道他是谁.虽然,我们不舍得他放这么長的假;但也希望他能用一年的長假好好充实自己,儘快回来和大家分享他的一切.
有一位老朋友(Old KH friend)希望我们把以下的片段Post上来,想必是要祝福他.
~三管家/延建
Friday, July 25, 2008
重 访 台 北（上）
~ 隔 了 一 个 月 我 再 重 访 台 北。 原 本 这 次 台 北 只 是 过 境， 打 算 到 台 南 台 中。 怎 知 人 算 不 如 天 算， 一 下 机 台 南 就 碰 到 “ 卡 玫 基” 台 风， 雨 量 是 三 十 年 之 最， 所 以 就 乖 乖 的 被 困 在 台 北。
~ 上 回 到 台 北 只 是 走 马 看 花 ， 吃 吃 喝 喝， 对 台 北 市 也 没 有 点 好 印 象。 这 回 就 决 定 好 好 的 看 一 看 台 北 吧！
~ 也 真 不 好 彩， 台 北 只 有 一 个 张 龙 登，所 以 他 躲 也 躲 不 掉， 被 逼 出 来 带 我 逛 逛， 哈 哈！
~ 哗 噻！ 误 上 贼 船， 龙 大 哥 说 带 我 去 个“ 好 地 方” 看 日 落。 我 还 穿 到 美 美， 以 为 去“ 血 拼” 及 逛 街。， 这 来 还 有 点ｏｖｅｒ ｄｒｅｓｓ 了。 龙 大 哥 还 真 看 得 起 我，以 为 我 还 真 有 当 年ｇｉｒｌ ｇｕｉｄｅ 的 ｓｔａｍｉｎａ， 还 可 以 健 步 如 飞 的 一 口 气 爬Ｇｕｎｕｎｇ Ｊｅｒａｉ。
~ 由台 北 躯 车 前 往 目 的 地－ 东 北 角， 差 不 多 要40 分 钟， 高 速 公 路 穿 越 了 长 长 的 隧 道， 就 是 沿 海 一 路 走， 风 景 怡 人。
山 脚 下 的 风 光 明 媚， 没 有 什 麽 沙 的 沙 滩。
连 石 头 都 那 麽 美！
５ 点 正 开 始 爬 山， 还 笑 得 出， 以 为 只 是“ 湿 湿 水”，“ 行 山” 而 已。
路 开 始 斜， 有 点 吃 力 了！
我 们 的 目 的 地。 龙 大 哥 催 我 用 劲 快 点 走， 要 在 日 落 之 前 赶 到， 捕 抓 最 美 的 一 刻。
哗 噻， 超 漂 亮 的 天 空！Ｉ ａｍ ｓｐｅｅｃｈｌｅｓｓ。
（待续）
~ 惜梅/Sabrina
Monday, July 21, 2008
粮荒
大家好:
今天不是要谈世界粮荒, 是要报告报告一下"家"的粮食还剩下多少:
1. 活动报告 - 一项 (关于槟岛聚餐)
2. 成员来函- 3 篇
3. 美食介绍- 还剩下104种
计划进展:
1. 慈善组 - 搁置.
2. 联系小组 - 全部职位还未被填满.
3. 采访组 - 搁置.
幸亏还有"美食介绍"可以确保104个星期有粮可温饱, 过后若没有新粮进来, 大家就挨饿了.
但想想"禾浪中央"又不是美食部落格, 一直说吃的也好象不是很妥啊!
但又有什么方法呢? 到时候不要怪我们"三管家"胡言乱语, 饥不择食的什么也贴上去了.
不然的话就继续挨饿吧!
"三管家"/CS财盛
今天不是要谈世界粮荒, 是要报告报告一下"家"的粮食还剩下多少:
1. 活动报告 - 一项 (关于槟岛聚餐)
2. 成员来函- 3 篇
3. 美食介绍- 还剩下104种
计划进展:
1. 慈善组 - 搁置.
2. 联系小组 - 全部职位还未被填满.
3. 采访组 - 搁置.
幸亏还有"美食介绍"可以确保104个星期有粮可温饱, 过后若没有新粮进来, 大家就挨饿了.
但想想"禾浪中央"又不是美食部落格, 一直说吃的也好象不是很妥啊!
但又有什么方法呢? 到时候不要怪我们"三管家"胡言乱语, 饥不择食的什么也贴上去了.
不然的话就继续挨饿吧!
"三管家"/CS财盛
Friday, July 18, 2008
周末絮语
大家好:
大家还需要这个"家"吗?
五月初的一个早上发现"在禾中央"消失了, 那种惊愕的感觉至今还是那么熟悉.然后渡过将近整十天"空空荡荡"的日子, 一点点的失落, 不是因为重聚会刚过, 所谓天无不散之延席, 分离其实是为了未来的相聚.当时各成员对此事件各持己见, 但居多都还眷恋着"在禾中央", 可能过去一年的陪伴已成习惯, 突然间毫无迹象的永远离去, 谁不感失落呢?
再过后, "禾浪中央"诞生了, 那种"家"的感觉又慢慢地回来.
"禾浪中央"瓜熟蒂落也将近两个月了，这次由三位成员来管理，名为“三管家”，没分高低，大家互相协调和补助，“家”的交往活动还是要依靠成员的输入，所谓“三管家”还是需要成员的来稿，文章，告知各种资料等等。
这里就出了问题。
这两个月来，成员输入并不踊跃，来来去去也就是那几个人，暂时还顶得过去，但能顶得多久？就算是某成员主办的地区性聚餐，反应也是麻麻而已，吉隆玻首映会招来十位成员（扣除主办人数），下个星期的槟岛聚餐目前也是非常冷淡，老师是请了，答应出席的“新”成员只有一位，发了将近二十多个短讯，回应的只有三个，两个说不能来。
就是这样了。
就是这样了。
如果没有其他成员来接棒与扶持，恐怕再过几个月，这个“家”就冷清清了。现今“家”的活动还蛮频密，主版的更换屡颇高，所以可见成员/非成员的点击力其实相当高，一天平均150的点击，可能有七，八十位成员/非成员进进出出这个“家”， 那是一股叫人亢奋的推动力。
只是这样的纪录可维持到何时呢？
当活动缓慢下来时，“三管家”欠缺苗籽耕种时，谁还会来走走看看呢？
大家都很忙，“三管家”明白，但“三管家”也一样忙啊！活动主办人也许更忙呢！活着，谁不忙呢？
如果大家都很忙而觉得这个“家”是一种累赘的话，那我们还需要这个"家"吗？
是时候了，是时候思考这个可大可小的问题了！
“三管家”/CS财盛
大家还需要这个"家"吗?
五月初的一个早上发现"在禾中央"消失了, 那种惊愕的感觉至今还是那么熟悉.然后渡过将近整十天"空空荡荡"的日子, 一点点的失落, 不是因为重聚会刚过, 所谓天无不散之延席, 分离其实是为了未来的相聚.当时各成员对此事件各持己见, 但居多都还眷恋着"在禾中央", 可能过去一年的陪伴已成习惯, 突然间毫无迹象的永远离去, 谁不感失落呢?
再过后, "禾浪中央"诞生了, 那种"家"的感觉又慢慢地回来.
"禾浪中央"瓜熟蒂落也将近两个月了，这次由三位成员来管理，名为“三管家”，没分高低，大家互相协调和补助，“家”的交往活动还是要依靠成员的输入，所谓“三管家”还是需要成员的来稿，文章，告知各种资料等等。
这里就出了问题。
这两个月来，成员输入并不踊跃，来来去去也就是那几个人，暂时还顶得过去，但能顶得多久？就算是某成员主办的地区性聚餐，反应也是麻麻而已，吉隆玻首映会招来十位成员（扣除主办人数），下个星期的槟岛聚餐目前也是非常冷淡，老师是请了，答应出席的“新”成员只有一位，发了将近二十多个短讯，回应的只有三个，两个说不能来。
就是这样了。
就是这样了。
如果没有其他成员来接棒与扶持，恐怕再过几个月，这个“家”就冷清清了。现今“家”的活动还蛮频密，主版的更换屡颇高，所以可见成员/非成员的点击力其实相当高，一天平均150的点击，可能有七，八十位成员/非成员进进出出这个“家”， 那是一股叫人亢奋的推动力。
只是这样的纪录可维持到何时呢？
当活动缓慢下来时，“三管家”欠缺苗籽耕种时，谁还会来走走看看呢？
大家都很忙，“三管家”明白，但“三管家”也一样忙啊！活动主办人也许更忙呢！活着，谁不忙呢？
如果大家都很忙而觉得这个“家”是一种累赘的话，那我们还需要这个"家"吗？
是时候了，是时候思考这个可大可小的问题了！
“三管家”/CS财盛
Thursday, July 17, 2008
HOCHIAK! 好吃！
大家好：
所谓民以食为天，这里也不例外，我们都要吃，而且又要吃美味又经济的。在现今的高油价时代，不节约些那里行啊！所以我们推出“美食介绍”专栏，每一个星期介绍全马各地的一种美食，多数都是本地菜肴和小食，希望大家都有口福吃到好食物！
我们也会在主版同时推出“禾浪美食”让大家留言畅谈每星期所介绍的美食。
这里要感谢Evelyne Yu把这些资料寄过来和大家分享！
“三管家”/CS财盛
所谓民以食为天，这里也不例外，我们都要吃，而且又要吃美味又经济的。在现今的高油价时代，不节约些那里行啊！所以我们推出“美食介绍”专栏，每一个星期介绍全马各地的一种美食，多数都是本地菜肴和小食，希望大家都有口福吃到好食物！
我们也会在主版同时推出“禾浪美食”让大家留言畅谈每星期所介绍的美食。
这里要感谢Evelyne Yu把这些资料寄过来和大家分享！
“三管家”/CS财盛
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Days of Endearment
The day I was informed of my mother’s diagnosis is like any normal day.
The sun rise in the morning and the time goes by at normal speed. I did not feel the impact in the beginning; the news came via text message from my brother’s hand phone to mine. Reading it line by line like any other text messages I received. I told myself very rationally that it will be either this disease or that would one day take away my mother’s life.
Everyone dies, someday. I reckoned my mother is lucky to live up to the 70s; many have died at a much younger age. I told myself I should be thankful of the time I have had with her.
I spent the whole day browsing information on lung cancer, its treatment, its prognosis etc. Then a sense of despair suddenly hit me. It was as if my mother was given a death sentence to be executed in three to nine months time. Every web page I read confirmed what the doctors conveyed to my brother. The doctors have dutifully replied as according to the statistics – “three months to nine months”. Though there would be no guarantee of how much time any patient of stage IV lung cancer would live after the diagnosis.
I spent the whole day browsing information on lung cancer, its treatment, its prognosis etc. Then a sense of despair suddenly hit me. It was as if my mother was given a death sentence to be executed in three to nine months time. Every web page I read confirmed what the doctors conveyed to my brother. The doctors have dutifully replied as according to the statistics – “three months to nine months”. Though there would be no guarantee of how much time any patient of stage IV lung cancer would live after the diagnosis.
I have worked with cancer patients previously, and I was aware of how unpredictable the disease is and how suddenly a seemingly healthy person can deteriorates and passed away due to an infection. Sometimes it is frightening when you know more.
I have gone home on the fifth day after received the news. I stay for 4 weeks.
I have gone home on the fifth day after received the news. I stay for 4 weeks.
My mother was still capable of looking after herself in the beginning. However, her energy level deteriorated drastically and one day she has given up showering herself and asked me to help her.
Then one day, she needed to be warded at a hospital. Since my mother lost her ability to self-care, my life was evolved around her. She has become the centre of my attention. I woke up with her in the morning and went to bed with her at night. I ate with her, I showered her, I helped her to go to toilet, and I gave her the medicines around the clock. She has become the baby that I never had.
One night, my mother asked me if I felt like I was nursing a baby. I told her that nursing her was similar to nursing a baby, but she is very easy to care for. She would not throw a tantrum or cry non-stop to get my attention. Besides, she is appreciative and has a sense of humor. We often make small talks just before dozing off. I was glad to be able to hear my mother’s life story from when she was just a little girl of 9 or 10.
My mother was discharged from the hospital and in good spirit when I left for Tokyo on 11th May. However, her condition soon deteriorated, 3 days after I left she was hospitalized again. I was very worried about her condition and being so far away from her did not help.
My mother was discharged from the hospital and in good spirit when I left for Tokyo on 11th May. However, her condition soon deteriorated, 3 days after I left she was hospitalized again. I was very worried about her condition and being so far away from her did not help.
I came back to KL again on 24th May. She was discharged from the hospital already. However, she was weaker and her general well-being has taken a toll from her recent lung infections as well as from the palliative radiotherapy side effects. The only good news was the tumour has shrunk somewhat.
My mother was home only for a few days before she had to be admitted again.
My mother was home only for a few days before she had to be admitted again.
This time she has a really bad lung infection that could be life threatening according to the doctors. 29 May to 2 Jun was a period of anxiety, we were worried she would not respond to the antibiotic and her lung would just fail to function. My mother beat the odds and went from critical to stable in a few days time. It was a rough emotional roller coaster for me.
I remembered the time when the doctor asked me to discuss with my siblings about whether the medical staff should resuscitate vigorously if my mother could no longer breathe by herself due to the lung infection? That morning I felt like somebody just forced down a hard boiled egg down my throat and it has stay in my throat till afternoon. I was accompanying my mother in the ward every night. At midday when my sisters came to the hospital, I went home to rest and cried in the shower. The feeling of the stucked egg in the throat disappeared after a good cry.
Mother was discharged from the hospital and came home on 3rd Jun. We celebrated the 55th Wedding Anniversary of my parents that day. The Anniversary fell on the 4th Jun but we have celebrated a day earlier, as there was a bone scan scheduled on the 4th. Mother was really happy on the 3rd Jun, so did my father.
Mother was discharged from the hospital and came home on 3rd Jun. We celebrated the 55th Wedding Anniversary of my parents that day. The Anniversary fell on the 4th Jun but we have celebrated a day earlier, as there was a bone scan scheduled on the 4th. Mother was really happy on the 3rd Jun, so did my father.
My father presented my mother 4 red roses signified ‘a life time of love’. We (the children and grandchildren) have a feast with my parents later that day. Mother was in such good spirit, she has eaten lots and insisted on watching her daily TV program in the evening. I would have like her to take some rest after dinner, but I did not want to spoil her good mood.
The second day mother was feeling very ill again. We had to reschedule the bone scan to 6th Jun. After the bone scan, mother felt really sick and out of breathe and her condition worsen over the weekends.
On Monday the 9th Jun, my mother was admitted to A&E at Pantai Hospital. That was my mother’s last admission to Pantai hospital. She had a very vicious lung infection, which has infected both sides of her lung. The chest specialist showed me the X-ray film and many white dots were visible on the lung. That was the third lung infections in a month.
On Monday the 9th Jun, my mother was admitted to A&E at Pantai Hospital. That was my mother’s last admission to Pantai hospital. She had a very vicious lung infection, which has infected both sides of her lung. The chest specialist showed me the X-ray film and many white dots were visible on the lung. That was the third lung infections in a month.
Sometimes I wondered if she has contracted the infection from the hospital during the bone scan. However, I know that I would only drive myself crazy if I start to think of all the ‘What if?’
My mother passed away peacefully at home with her children and grandchildren surrounded her on the afternoon of 24th Jun 2008. She was 73 years old.
The rest is history.
I am writing this article to commemorate my mother. My mother told me that she was not afraid of dying and she believed that she was going to a world without suffering. Because of her belief, I was able to let go of her with calm and gratitude at her passing. My mother has given her whole life to her children and her husband. She deserved to rest in peace now.
My mother passed away peacefully at home with her children and grandchildren surrounded her on the afternoon of 24th Jun 2008. She was 73 years old.
The rest is history.
I am writing this article to commemorate my mother. My mother told me that she was not afraid of dying and she believed that she was going to a world without suffering. Because of her belief, I was able to let go of her with calm and gratitude at her passing. My mother has given her whole life to her children and her husband. She deserved to rest in peace now.
However, her loving gestures would always in the memory of my father, my siblings and me. Throughout the end, she had been kind and thoughtful to her family. She has been brave in dealing with her illness and always appreciative of her carers, including all the family members, and the medical staffs of Pantai Medical Centre.
Cancer is an illness that is often disabling and affects the patient as well as the patient’s family. Its impact is not only physical and emotional, in some instances, spiritual. I am thankful that I was able to accompany my mother to walk her last passage. It was somewhat shorter than I hoped, nevertheless I am looking at those days with gratitude and my bond with my mother had grew much stronger during those last months of her life. I am still overwhelmed with emotion sometimes, but I know that time is a great healer.
I hope to share a sense of peace and acceptance with everyone who fears of cancer and other life threatening diseases we are facing now or might be facing in the future.
My sincere thanks and appreciations go to all friends and acquaintances that have supported my family and I through this difficult time. Thanks to friends who have contributed generously to the ‘Condolence Tokens’. In the hope of not omitting anyone, I have decided not to print the names of contributors. The collected sum would go to charitable and religious causes, which was the wish of my late mother.
Cancer is an illness that is often disabling and affects the patient as well as the patient’s family. Its impact is not only physical and emotional, in some instances, spiritual. I am thankful that I was able to accompany my mother to walk her last passage. It was somewhat shorter than I hoped, nevertheless I am looking at those days with gratitude and my bond with my mother had grew much stronger during those last months of her life. I am still overwhelmed with emotion sometimes, but I know that time is a great healer.
I hope to share a sense of peace and acceptance with everyone who fears of cancer and other life threatening diseases we are facing now or might be facing in the future.
My sincere thanks and appreciations go to all friends and acquaintances that have supported my family and I through this difficult time. Thanks to friends who have contributed generously to the ‘Condolence Tokens’. In the hope of not omitting anyone, I have decided not to print the names of contributors. The collected sum would go to charitable and religious causes, which was the wish of my late mother.
~黄美筠/Ooi Bee Gin
Monday, July 14, 2008
预告- 黄美筠的思母文
大家好：
我读完时感觉眼眶都湿了，一篇很真诚，思念很深的文章！
我想找最漂亮的插图来配合，所以这里先打个预告，请大家耐心期待。
美筠同学，谢谢你的勇气，只有一个很坚强的人才可以写出这样的悼文。
Tears welled up in my eyes when I finished reading this article written by Bee Gin, a write-up about her demised mother which exudes such pure emotion that truly touches my heart. It takes great courages for someone as strong as Bee Gin to come up with this article, a true, divine expression of her deepest love.
It will pe posted soon while I am looking for the right illustration to be posted together.
Be patient!
“三管家”/CS财盛
我读完时感觉眼眶都湿了，一篇很真诚，思念很深的文章！
我想找最漂亮的插图来配合，所以这里先打个预告，请大家耐心期待。
美筠同学，谢谢你的勇气，只有一个很坚强的人才可以写出这样的悼文。
Tears welled up in my eyes when I finished reading this article written by Bee Gin, a write-up about her demised mother which exudes such pure emotion that truly touches my heart. It takes great courages for someone as strong as Bee Gin to come up with this article, a true, divine expression of her deepest love.
It will pe posted soon while I am looking for the right illustration to be posted together.
Be patient!
“三管家”/CS财盛
Saturday, July 12, 2008
一位吉华生的谢师感言
一位身份不明的吉华生写了这样的一段留言, 我觉得大家应该花点时间读一读:
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Dear Mr Tan,(Mr. Tan Tiong Lip)
You message inspire me to write something down here.
You have to confess something with pride, these are the quality students whom you have taught and brought us up to where we are today.
Every child has gifts and being taleted and and responsible teachers, you and other Keat Hwa teachers have enhanced and cutivated the seeds and celebrating the fruits today.
Keat Hwa students have been very successful in whatever they are doing today and no doubt they are contributing the success of the society to our country too. The windy force to make all of these happen? You teachers who have spent days and nights coaching us , without swearing and hesistationswhen we were in the of our schooling times. You give so much, and receive little in return, and never complain.
When we were in our 17, 18 year olds, we did a lots of deviance acts such as sleeping in class, challenging teachers with harsh languages, criticize teachers, "ponteng" class and school etc. Teachers might scream, scold and slap. But at the end of the day, we learn, we grow. And they are always there to wish us change, improve and grow even though we might have forgotten them. The care and impact is definitely beyond the classroom and the years we were in Keat Hwa.
While we are working hard and heading to our life destination goal. Take a moment, sit down and give a thought. Who had shaped us to who we are today besides our parents?They do, all teachers who had taught us in school.Be appreciative and do not forget to tell them how much we appreciate and love them before the opportunity dismisses.
I would like to dedicate this small blog article to all Keat Hwa teachers who inspire and dedicate untold hours to teach and grow us.
And thank you for doing such a phenomenal job!
A Keat Hwa student
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"三管家"/CS财盛
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Dear Mr Tan,(Mr. Tan Tiong Lip)
You message inspire me to write something down here.
You have to confess something with pride, these are the quality students whom you have taught and brought us up to where we are today.
Every child has gifts and being taleted and and responsible teachers, you and other Keat Hwa teachers have enhanced and cutivated the seeds and celebrating the fruits today.
Keat Hwa students have been very successful in whatever they are doing today and no doubt they are contributing the success of the society to our country too. The windy force to make all of these happen? You teachers who have spent days and nights coaching us , without swearing and hesistationswhen we were in the of our schooling times. You give so much, and receive little in return, and never complain.
When we were in our 17, 18 year olds, we did a lots of deviance acts such as sleeping in class, challenging teachers with harsh languages, criticize teachers, "ponteng" class and school etc. Teachers might scream, scold and slap. But at the end of the day, we learn, we grow. And they are always there to wish us change, improve and grow even though we might have forgotten them. The care and impact is definitely beyond the classroom and the years we were in Keat Hwa.
While we are working hard and heading to our life destination goal. Take a moment, sit down and give a thought. Who had shaped us to who we are today besides our parents?They do, all teachers who had taught us in school.Be appreciative and do not forget to tell them how much we appreciate and love them before the opportunity dismisses.
I would like to dedicate this small blog article to all Keat Hwa teachers who inspire and dedicate untold hours to teach and grow us.
And thank you for doing such a phenomenal job!
A Keat Hwa student
_________________________________________________________
"三管家"/CS财盛
Friday, July 11, 2008
雪隆首映会
分开了将近二十多年, 有时我想了又想, 是什么力量驱使我们花时间花金钱来相遇?其实大家可以把过去的友谊忘掉了, 朋友之间的永恆存在吗?存在的话它又值多少? 无价还是零?
有人跟我说, “你们真的是吃饱没事做, 现有的朋友还不够多吗?”
我听了愣一愣, 他说的其实也蛮有道理, 因为朋友有时是一种负担, 当你收到一位好久没联络的朋友的电话时, 你心里的第一击触感是什么? 惊喜还是纳闷? 老实说很多人都会感到纳闷, 是不是要卖包险, 介绍直销产品, 或更堪的是诉苦借钱?
幸好感到惊喜的还是大有人在, 所以雪隆首映会的讯息放出去, 至少还有十多个人接到了没有”脚软”, 反而一口答应, 欣然赴约.
我和俊之先抵达餐馆, 那个下午吉隆玻天气晴朗, 交通狀况顺畅, 所以在预料之中, 其他人也陆陆续续到来. 最叫人兴奋的是过了将近三十年, 我们再次见到邱国煌老师, 当年的分校主仁. 当然还有Mr. Goh Tong Chit 和他的太太, 以前在分校负责书本借贷, 至于教什么科目就记不起了.
出席者到齐就坐后 (你们可以猜一猜那一桌留下空缺), 晚餐便开始了, 负责影视的继豪也播放534重聚日的影片, 当第一个画面出现在电视荧屏时, 那些熟悉的感动又缓缓的回来…….
邱老师和Mr. Goh的样子其实没什么变, 他们都不大记的我们这一群学生了, 但还是隐掩不住脸上那种久离重聚的悦色, 我真的无法揣度老师们当时的感受, 一张张陌生的脸孔, 当年的学生, 现今已是为人父母, 依然还可以 “老师”来称呼自己, 那是怎样的一种感触, 我相信也只有老师自己知道.
而那股美好的感觉, 也就是我们可以回馈他们教育之恩的一点点谢意.
邱老师已经八十二岁了, 太太已经过逝, 现在和义女住在一起. 说起这位义女儿, 他脸上马上焕发满足的笑容, 以前就是因为邱老师的协助和坚持, 她才有机会上课求学, 成家立业后她没弃忘邱老师对她的养育之恩, 现在当着自己的亲父给予无微的照顾.邱老师这一生有不少义儿义女, 他们都曾经被邱老师和师母当亲生孩子关怀备至, 现在个个都事业有成, 佈落在马来西亚各地, 所以他去到那里都几乎有”孩子”关照, 令人羡慕不已. 其实这都是邱老师播下的善种所得来的福报, 我们真的要好好向他学习.
一谈起以前任教过的学生, 他第一个就问, “蔡立人呢?”, 可惜立人有事缠身无法出席, 可见立人在他印像里仍占一席之地. 虽然年过八十了, 邱老师看起来依旧精神抖擞, 嗓声宏亮, 动作稳扎, 步伐矫健, 跟本没有老态龙钟之意. 他不只人来了, 他还带来三本校刊, 真是难得的”稀品”, 大家都挣抢着看. 泛黄的封面, 黑白的图片, 翻着翻着便牵扯出来不少往昔的回忆, 校园的读书时光, 总是那么令人眷恋.
我们一边用餐一边看着影片, 惜梅间中便向老师介绍出现在荧屏上的同学和当天出席晚宴的老师. 邱老师和Mr. Goh 夫妇有机会见到久违的同事旧友, 看来非常雀跃, 当然也免不了说长话短一般, 比如刘汉河老师胖了不少, Mr. Lim Chee Sim切是十年如一日的那般年轻, 他们也很惊讶连杨校长也答应出席宴会. 我们也谈起往日在校园的点点滴滴, 邱老师也透露了不少关于其他老师的故事, 一些他还记得的学生, 出乎预了的他点名的都是当时 “最坏”的学生, 看来若你想让老师念念不忘的话, 那就非罄竹难书不可.
Mr. Goh Tong Chit两夫妇也非常健谈, Mr. Goh好几年前已退休了, 孩子都已长大成人, 其中一个居住在美国, 所以他们两偶尔
也会飞到美国去探望孩子, 现在可说是在享清福了. Mr. Goh 其实是退而不休, 他现今从事文字工作, 专写儿童和青少年故事,然后卖给出版社赚稿费, 地确是一种很不错的后退休职业.
这次见到老同学真是满心欢喜, 菜肴是否美味可口居其次, 最重要的是大家可以见见面, 聊聊天. 一些朋友在重聚日已见过面, 但我还是有意外的收获, 那是见到了爱云校友. 我们在初中一读同一班, 至今也有三十年了. 他嫁了个台湾老公, 说起话来是一口的台湾腔, 看来真的是半个台湾人了. 由于回程是和她一起共车, 所以有机会聊一聊, 才知道她有个孩子在读高三, 明年毕业后也可能搬回台湾定居, 爱云校友和我一样, 都觉得其实台北是个还不错的城市, 对惜梅和延建不那么好的台北印象感到奇怪, 可能是每个人的城市品味有差距吧!
当晚也收到锦历的短讯, 他正从南京飞回香港, 他还叫我们 “不必等他开饭了”, 也同时向在坐的同学老师问好. 这次的聚餐可要感谢锦历的用心用力, 剪辑工作很不容易, 加上又有时限要赶, 这种付出的精神叫人钦佩. 影片是否精彩, 我想没人可以否定, 听说不少人一边看一边泪流满面, 的确感动人心. 这里, 再一次郑重向方锦历说声: 谢谢. 当然不可不提蔡立人, 没有他, 没有你, 这个富有纪念性的影片不可能诞生!
聊着看着, 影片也播完了, 菜肴也出到甜品, 但是大家仍然畅谈得非常起劲, 尤其是”朋友桌”, 大家正谈着陈年往事, 笑声连连, 这些无法忘怀的回忆皆是这一生中最宝贵的珍藏. 最后露微推出她特为这聚餐烘制的蛋糕, 我的天! 看起来就不相信是她做的, 吃起来还以为是在闻名的蛋糕店订做的呢!
十一时左右, 我们看老师们微露倦意, 就提议晚宴结束, 道别声中大家各踏上回家的路, 虽然只是一个小聚餐, 显然的大家都带着无限的欢喜心说再见.
至今我依然还不是很清楚为何我会从槟城赶来赴约, 就像其他朋友牺牲自己的周末晚上, 忍受交通阻塞之苦, 腾出时间来出席这样的一个似乎没有什么特别意义的聚会,我是那么认真的思考过, 但始终没有答案.
也许, 这一些些就叫着友情吧!
"三管家"/CS财盛
有人跟我说, “你们真的是吃饱没事做, 现有的朋友还不够多吗?”
我听了愣一愣, 他说的其实也蛮有道理, 因为朋友有时是一种负担, 当你收到一位好久没联络的朋友的电话时, 你心里的第一击触感是什么? 惊喜还是纳闷? 老实说很多人都会感到纳闷, 是不是要卖包险, 介绍直销产品, 或更堪的是诉苦借钱?
幸好感到惊喜的还是大有人在, 所以雪隆首映会的讯息放出去, 至少还有十多个人接到了没有”脚软”, 反而一口答应, 欣然赴约.
我和俊之先抵达餐馆, 那个下午吉隆玻天气晴朗, 交通狀况顺畅, 所以在预料之中, 其他人也陆陆续续到来. 最叫人兴奋的是过了将近三十年, 我们再次见到邱国煌老师, 当年的分校主仁. 当然还有Mr. Goh Tong Chit 和他的太太, 以前在分校负责书本借贷, 至于教什么科目就记不起了.
出席者到齐就坐后 (你们可以猜一猜那一桌留下空缺), 晚餐便开始了, 负责影视的继豪也播放534重聚日的影片, 当第一个画面出现在电视荧屏时, 那些熟悉的感动又缓缓的回来…….
邱老师和Mr. Goh的样子其实没什么变, 他们都不大记的我们这一群学生了, 但还是隐掩不住脸上那种久离重聚的悦色, 我真的无法揣度老师们当时的感受, 一张张陌生的脸孔, 当年的学生, 现今已是为人父母, 依然还可以 “老师”来称呼自己, 那是怎样的一种感触, 我相信也只有老师自己知道.
而那股美好的感觉, 也就是我们可以回馈他们教育之恩的一点点谢意.
邱老师已经八十二岁了, 太太已经过逝, 现在和义女住在一起. 说起这位义女儿, 他脸上马上焕发满足的笑容, 以前就是因为邱老师的协助和坚持, 她才有机会上课求学, 成家立业后她没弃忘邱老师对她的养育之恩, 现在当着自己的亲父给予无微的照顾.邱老师这一生有不少义儿义女, 他们都曾经被邱老师和师母当亲生孩子关怀备至, 现在个个都事业有成, 佈落在马来西亚各地, 所以他去到那里都几乎有”孩子”关照, 令人羡慕不已. 其实这都是邱老师播下的善种所得来的福报, 我们真的要好好向他学习.一谈起以前任教过的学生, 他第一个就问, “蔡立人呢?”, 可惜立人有事缠身无法出席, 可见立人在他印像里仍占一席之地. 虽然年过八十了, 邱老师看起来依旧精神抖擞, 嗓声宏亮, 动作稳扎, 步伐矫健, 跟本没有老态龙钟之意. 他不只人来了, 他还带来三本校刊, 真是难得的”稀品”, 大家都挣抢着看. 泛黄的封面, 黑白的图片, 翻着翻着便牵扯出来不少往昔的回忆, 校园的读书时光, 总是那么令人眷恋.
我们一边用餐一边看着影片, 惜梅间中便向老师介绍出现在荧屏上的同学和当天出席晚宴的老师. 邱老师和Mr. Goh 夫妇有机会见到久违的同事旧友, 看来非常雀跃, 当然也免不了说长话短一般, 比如刘汉河老师胖了不少, Mr. Lim Chee Sim切是十年如一日的那般年轻, 他们也很惊讶连杨校长也答应出席宴会. 我们也谈起往日在校园的点点滴滴, 邱老师也透露了不少关于其他老师的故事, 一些他还记得的学生, 出乎预了的他点名的都是当时 “最坏”的学生, 看来若你想让老师念念不忘的话, 那就非罄竹难书不可.
Mr. Goh Tong Chit两夫妇也非常健谈, Mr. Goh好几年前已退休了, 孩子都已长大成人, 其中一个居住在美国, 所以他们两偶尔
也会飞到美国去探望孩子, 现在可说是在享清福了. Mr. Goh 其实是退而不休, 他现今从事文字工作, 专写儿童和青少年故事,然后卖给出版社赚稿费, 地确是一种很不错的后退休职业.这次见到老同学真是满心欢喜, 菜肴是否美味可口居其次, 最重要的是大家可以见见面, 聊聊天. 一些朋友在重聚日已见过面, 但我还是有意外的收获, 那是见到了爱云校友. 我们在初中一读同一班, 至今也有三十年了. 他嫁了个台湾老公, 说起话来是一口的台湾腔, 看来真的是半个台湾人了. 由于回程是和她一起共车, 所以有机会聊一聊, 才知道她有个孩子在读高三, 明年毕业后也可能搬回台湾定居, 爱云校友和我一样, 都觉得其实台北是个还不错的城市, 对惜梅和延建不那么好的台北印象感到奇怪, 可能是每个人的城市品味有差距吧!
当晚也收到锦历的短讯, 他正从南京飞回香港, 他还叫我们 “不必等他开饭了”, 也同时向在坐的同学老师问好. 这次的聚餐可要感谢锦历的用心用力, 剪辑工作很不容易, 加上又有时限要赶, 这种付出的精神叫人钦佩. 影片是否精彩, 我想没人可以否定, 听说不少人一边看一边泪流满面, 的确感动人心. 这里, 再一次郑重向方锦历说声: 谢谢. 当然不可不提蔡立人, 没有他, 没有你, 这个富有纪念性的影片不可能诞生!
聊着看着, 影片也播完了, 菜肴也出到甜品, 但是大家仍然畅谈得非常起劲, 尤其是”朋友桌”, 大家正谈着陈年往事, 笑声连连, 这些无法忘怀的回忆皆是这一生中最宝贵的珍藏. 最后露微推出她特为这聚餐烘制的蛋糕, 我的天! 看起来就不相信是她做的, 吃起来还以为是在闻名的蛋糕店订做的呢!
十一时左右, 我们看老师们微露倦意, 就提议晚宴结束, 道别声中大家各踏上回家的路, 虽然只是一个小聚餐, 显然的大家都带着无限的欢喜心说再见.
至今我依然还不是很清楚为何我会从槟城赶来赴约, 就像其他朋友牺牲自己的周末晚上, 忍受交通阻塞之苦, 腾出时间来出席这样的一个似乎没有什么特别意义的聚会,我是那么认真的思考过, 但始终没有答案.
也许, 这一些些就叫着友情吧!
"三管家"/CS财盛
Mr. Goh 的感言
Dear Sabrina,
Thank you for inviting me to your reunion dinner at Chuai Heng Restaurant on 5Aug.2008. Out of the blue, you invited me, not once, but twice, to meet with all of you, thanks to Lee Wai Keong. I am deeply touched and honoured to know that I am still remembered after all these years.
I am proud to see that you have all grown up to become parents yourselves, and successful in your own ways. It's really wonderful to catch up with old times, and to know what some of you are doing. Time has changed many of us, but surprisingly, Mr Khoo Kok Hong's memory is still sharp. Glad to have met him again.
I taught in Keat Hwa from 1967 to 1998. After I left, I began to appreciate the wonderful students I had in Keat Hwa. You were all model students as compared to the little 'devils' I had in another school. It was a privilege to have taught all of you.
After watching the DVD KH7883 Reunion, I must congratulate all of you for a job well-done. I am truly impressed that you were able to gather so many classmates and teachers to attend.
Looking forward to see you again!
Best wishes and warmest regards from Goh Tong Chit
Thank you for inviting me to your reunion dinner at Chuai Heng Restaurant on 5Aug.2008. Out of the blue, you invited me, not once, but twice, to meet with all of you, thanks to Lee Wai Keong. I am deeply touched and honoured to know that I am still remembered after all these years.
I am proud to see that you have all grown up to become parents yourselves, and successful in your own ways. It's really wonderful to catch up with old times, and to know what some of you are doing. Time has changed many of us, but surprisingly, Mr Khoo Kok Hong's memory is still sharp. Glad to have met him again.
I taught in Keat Hwa from 1967 to 1998. After I left, I began to appreciate the wonderful students I had in Keat Hwa. You were all model students as compared to the little 'devils' I had in another school. It was a privilege to have taught all of you.
After watching the DVD KH7883 Reunion, I must congratulate all of you for a job well-done. I am truly impressed that you were able to gather so many classmates and teachers to attend.
Looking forward to see you again!
Best wishes and warmest regards from Goh Tong Chit
Thursday, July 10, 2008
惜梅走了伟强来了
雪隆区的成员，
你们好。
该区的534重聚日DVD的领取人已经更换，从今天开始你们的负责人是：
李伟强校友
Lee Wai Keong
所有的DVD都在他的店里，细则如下：
ZN Concept (M) Sdn. Bhd.
Lot F1, AV. 33 & 35, Sunway Pyramid
No. 3, Jalan PJS 11/15, Bandar Sunway
电话：03-5621 7018
手提：012-3177708
大家若有空，又想看一看重聚日的影片，那就到他店去领取吧！也顺便可以在Sunway Pyramid “瞎拼”一整天！至于惜梅校友，就忘了她吧！她是“空中飞人”，小心你的电话打到荷兰去！
谢谢。
“三管家”/CS财盛
你们好。
该区的534重聚日DVD的领取人已经更换，从今天开始你们的负责人是：
李伟强校友
Lee Wai Keong
所有的DVD都在他的店里，细则如下：
ZN Concept (M) Sdn. Bhd.
Lot F1, AV. 33 & 35, Sunway Pyramid
No. 3, Jalan PJS 11/15, Bandar Sunway
电话：03-5621 7018
手提：012-3177708
大家若有空，又想看一看重聚日的影片，那就到他店去领取吧！也顺便可以在Sunway Pyramid “瞎拼”一整天！至于惜梅校友，就忘了她吧！她是“空中飞人”，小心你的电话打到荷兰去！
谢谢。
“三管家”/CS财盛
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
三则感人故事
（只要点击以上View就可以看了，请勿理荧屏上的字眼）
财盛在6月12日收到松辉寄来这套用PowerPoint做的"三则感人故事".
听说财盛看过了之后感动到流眼淚,便要求我和俊之必须把它贴上部落格让大家欣赏.我看了覚得的确感人,但沒必要立刻贴上去....拖到今天(7月9日)又接到财盛的催促令.怕他会跑到大桥xx,只好想方设法把它弄上部落格,看有几位老兄老姐会感动到流淚或留言写下自个兒的感受.
拜托大家看完它,別辜负了财盛的用心.
~延建
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Monday, July 7, 2008
香港小聚
15 min with 刘老师at Macau ferry, Teacher wanna rush back to 博 杀 and
didn’t manage to join us for dinner…..Ő
My HK foster family-Gary, neighbour to Alice & KL
Yummy seafood at 西 贡,another HK & Msia mari reunion.
Ooop, is it for dinner?
Shark or shark fin?
HK bamboo clam is so huge, it's called 圣 旨, eat also 怕 怕!
Lee Wai Keong is like me, M'sia mari, on biz trip.KL said that's the 1st time all 3 HK KH7883 meet together, becoz of 2 M'sia mari.
唯 一 的 遗 憾: 没 有 吃 到 义 顺 的 双 皮 奶 和 "姜 撞 奶".
~ 陈惜梅
Bonus Track: Photos From 伟强
ASTRO 703美食体驗
时下政經愁雲慘霧密佈, 此情此景正如西游記中到西天取經的孙悟空. 老孙豎手眺望, 转身对師父說:[師父, 不远之处妖云滿天, 天色已晚, 咱們不如暂时就此歇下, 明朝再启程也不迟. ]
讲飲讲食是本人主修強项, 外面行情急轉直下, 就如多年老夫老妻, 感情由浓轉淡同出一轍, 这是无可厚非的自然現象, 不能強求, 无奈[哀怨], 又非本人一贯作风, 不如讲讲最近的一次用餐經驗, 即新奇又过瘾, 达到了主人家市埸行銷的目的.
时下厂商为了拉攏顾客的垂注,用起的行銷手段,真是貼心又温馨, 感性理性兼具,真是无不用其极. 为达到目的, 洒尽手段.
应了一场午歺之約,属于商务性质, 商業伙伴要推銷其从德国進口的新品牌,所以安排了一次餐聚. 根据过往經驗, 一般都是在酒店包下會議厅, 安排专人講解, 附上精美产品說明书. 然後顺带吃上一顿商务午餐, 哈啦哈啦一番, 最後拍拍屁股走人.
由於这类形的活动三不五时都會有,所以一般上都己练至[皮笑肉不笑],[船过了无痕], [肉身在灵魂出竅]的至高境界. 不过，这次大不同，所以为文共享。
平日在家最喜欢看的波道是ASTRO 703 , 或707, 特別是每逢周五晚上８时上映那部。我必拿定椅子，定坐电視機前，眼睛锁定定，［及实］那位單煮煮菜, 就能令人有窒息感的主廚所主持的美食节目. 要知道那是谁, 自己打开电視看吧！
當然最大的原因还是出自本人贪食本性. 吃不到看看也爽.
这次的节目安排在八打灵13区的工厂区內.主人家把整個办工室设计成最具現代气息的櫥房搬到現场.当然配得上它的炊具是自家代理的德国品牌.德国人的钢制品,打磨精細，令人愛不惜手.当然,再怎么精緻,也都比不上代理商的安排更吸引我的注意力.
代理商请了城內某名意大利餐廳的主櫥上門到會, 用上自家全套櫥具, 現场为我煮上八道全餐; 计有; 蘑菇汤, 前菜为鲜虾沙啦, 波菜意大利餃子, 海鲜意大利面, 厐马火腿螺旋型意大利粉, 香草烤鸡（相信我,这只鸡的酥化入味层度,幾乎连骨頭都啃得下）,果醬冰淇淋卷, 意式浓縮咖啡.飽到我差不多意大利面要从鼻孔溢出來.
葡萄酒供应不断…, 呢次真系死得人多!
全程跟足意大利人飲食文化, 一餐吃足两小时,講講吃吃停停,一道接一道,主櫥會察言觀色, 看到盤子差不多空了,就开始煮下一道.絶不讓你盘子空置超过3分钟.那时在想,假如我老婆有那么好就捧絶了.
看着別人当着我面前煮, 这种經驗有如亲临703現场, 不过,这不止看,还能吃进肚子里. 心理原先淮傋, 如味道好, 我會露出欣賞萬分,期待下一道更精彩的神情.如味道欠佳,我竪起拇指, 然後大大力往下指,他肯定老脸挂不住.事实上,全程我只有一個表情, 就是吃,吃，吃， 吃死算了.
我原本打算把每一道菜都拍下來, 开始还記得, 第二道菜开始, 已忘了原訂計划, 連自己贵姓都忘得一乾二净,只顾着干掉眼前的食物, [唔!~~~~~唔!], 咀顾着蠕动, 把食物顺着食道往胃部輸送, 那还记得拍照这回事.
对了, 該德国櫥具价位如何? 一個冰箱１００千！一辆车的价钱。 別的甭谈了。我來的目的是吃, 别的干卿何事。
~谢继豪
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Friday, July 4, 2008
周末絮语
大家好:
大家还需要这个"家"吗?
五月初的一个早上发现"在禾中央"消失了, 那种惊愕的感觉至今还是那么熟悉.
然后渡过将近整十天"空空荡荡"的日子, 一点点的失落, 不是因为重聚会刚过, 所谓天无不散之延席, 分离其实是为了未来的相聚.
当时各成员对此事件各持己见, 但居多都还眷恋着"在禾中央", 可能过去一年的陪伴已成习惯, 突然间毫无迹象的永远离去, 谁不感失落呢?
再过后, "禾浪中央"诞生了, 那种"家"的感觉又慢慢地回来.
"禾浪中央"瓜熟蒂落也将近两个月了，这次由三位成员来管理，名为“三管家”，没分高低，大家互相协调和补助，“家”的交往活动还是要依靠成员的输入，所谓“三管家”还是需要成员的来稿，文章，告知各种资料等等。
这里就出了问题。
这两个月来，成员输入并不踊跃，来来去去也就是那几个人，暂时还顶得过去，但能顶得多久？
就算是某成员主办的地区性聚餐，反应也是麻麻而已，吉隆玻首映会招来十位成员（扣除主办人数），下个星期的槟岛聚餐目前也是非常冷淡，老师是请了，答应出席的“新”成员只有一位，发了将近二十多个短讯，回应的只有三个，两个说不能来。
就是这样了。
就是这样了。
如果没有其他成员来接棒与扶持，恐怕再过几个月，这个“家”就冷清清了。现今“家”的活动还蛮频密，主版的更换屡颇高，所以可见成员/非成员的点击力其实相当高，一天平均150的点击，可能有七，八十位成员/非成员进进出出这个“家”， 那是一股叫人亢奋的推动力。
只是这样的纪录可维持到何时呢？
当活动缓慢下来时，“三管家”欠缺苗籽耕种时，谁还会来走走看看呢？
大家都很忙，“三管家”明白，但“三管家”也一样忙啊！活动主办人也许更忙呢！
活着，谁不忙呢？
如果大家都很忙而觉得这个“家”是一种累赘的话，那我们还需要这个"家"吗？
是时候了，是时候思考这个可达可小的问题了！
大家还需要这个"家"吗?
五月初的一个早上发现"在禾中央"消失了, 那种惊愕的感觉至今还是那么熟悉.
然后渡过将近整十天"空空荡荡"的日子, 一点点的失落, 不是因为重聚会刚过, 所谓天无不散之延席, 分离其实是为了未来的相聚.
当时各成员对此事件各持己见, 但居多都还眷恋着"在禾中央", 可能过去一年的陪伴已成习惯, 突然间毫无迹象的永远离去, 谁不感失落呢?
再过后, "禾浪中央"诞生了, 那种"家"的感觉又慢慢地回来.
"禾浪中央"瓜熟蒂落也将近两个月了，这次由三位成员来管理，名为“三管家”，没分高低，大家互相协调和补助，“家”的交往活动还是要依靠成员的输入，所谓“三管家”还是需要成员的来稿，文章，告知各种资料等等。
这里就出了问题。
这两个月来，成员输入并不踊跃，来来去去也就是那几个人，暂时还顶得过去，但能顶得多久？
就算是某成员主办的地区性聚餐，反应也是麻麻而已，吉隆玻首映会招来十位成员（扣除主办人数），下个星期的槟岛聚餐目前也是非常冷淡，老师是请了，答应出席的“新”成员只有一位，发了将近二十多个短讯，回应的只有三个，两个说不能来。
就是这样了。
就是这样了。
如果没有其他成员来接棒与扶持，恐怕再过几个月，这个“家”就冷清清了。现今“家”的活动还蛮频密，主版的更换屡颇高，所以可见成员/非成员的点击力其实相当高，一天平均150的点击，可能有七，八十位成员/非成员进进出出这个“家”， 那是一股叫人亢奋的推动力。
只是这样的纪录可维持到何时呢？
当活动缓慢下来时，“三管家”欠缺苗籽耕种时，谁还会来走走看看呢？
大家都很忙，“三管家”明白，但“三管家”也一样忙啊！活动主办人也许更忙呢！
活着，谁不忙呢？
如果大家都很忙而觉得这个“家”是一种累赘的话，那我们还需要这个"家"吗？
是时候了，是时候思考这个可达可小的问题了！
“三管家”/CS财盛
吃在台北
遇上台北的小食，还是‘少说话、多行动’。
臭 豆 腐 还 真 不 赖， 一 点 都 不 臭！
臭 豆 腐 还 真 不 赖， 一 点 都 不 臭！
哈 哈， YK， 我 比 你 还 利 害 哩！ 我 的ｆａｖｏｕｒｉｔｅ－－单 单 是 雪 花 冰 便 值 回 票 价！！！
嘩! 大鸡排!! 是真的鸡排!!!
不 怕 胖 就 来 台 北 大 食 吧！
嘩! 大鸡排!! 是真的鸡排!!!
不 怕 胖 就 来 台 北 大 食 吧！
~陈惜梅
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
槟岛聚餐
大家好：
我们敬爱的邱瑞如老师不久前光荣退休，为了要感谢我们对她及其他老师的教导之恩，我们借此机会在槟岛设办一个简单的聚餐，聚餐的细则如下：
地点：新世界（New World Park) 的 Nyonya Cafe.
日期：20-07-08 （星期日）
时间：傍晚七点钟
联系人：李财盛 （012-4082880）
我们会邀请住在槟城的所有老师出席此聚餐，最重要的是我们希望住在槟城，威省，大山脚，居林和双溪大年的所有成员踊跃参与，我们更期待外州的校友也可以响应，记得，这种师友聚餐可能就是久久一次，错过了可能也没有机会了。
谢谢。
“三管家”/CS财盛
我们敬爱的邱瑞如老师不久前光荣退休，为了要感谢我们对她及其他老师的教导之恩，我们借此机会在槟岛设办一个简单的聚餐，聚餐的细则如下：
地点：新世界（New World Park) 的 Nyonya Cafe.
日期：20-07-08 （星期日）
时间：傍晚七点钟
联系人：李财盛 （012-4082880）
我们会邀请住在槟城的所有老师出席此聚餐，最重要的是我们希望住在槟城，威省，大山脚，居林和双溪大年的所有成员踊跃参与，我们更期待外州的校友也可以响应，记得，这种师友聚餐可能就是久久一次，错过了可能也没有机会了。
谢谢。
“三管家”/CS财盛
人在台北
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槟 榔 西 施？？？- 其 实 是 他 想 看 吧!
稍 后 到 龙 宫 向 龙 嫂 问 安.
堂 皇 的 龙 宫.
可 爱 的 龙 公 主.
当 年 的Ｇｉｒｌ ｇｕｉｄｅ ＆ ｓｃｏｕｔ
Yummy Yummy........
~陈惜梅
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